Sunday, October 18, 2009

Sexism (6th entry)

http://women.timesonline.co.uk/tol/life_and_style/women/article6849600.ece#


The above URL is a link to an article titled "It's time to challenge casual sexism". This article really caught my attention because I do believe that casual sexism is one of those problems in today's society which is not being addressed. Women have to deal with this on a daily basis, be it in the form of television commercials, magazines and even the kind of treatment they receive at the office.

In the past, women had to put up with sexism because they did not have much power or say in the kind of treatment they received. Essentially, women were living in a man's world, and they had to adhere to the framework that meb built for them to live by. What is incomprehensible is how sexism still exists in today's day and age. The modern working woman is supposed to represent power, authority, independence and inner strength. Why then, do we allow ourselves to be subjugated to casual sexism.

"Does casual sexism matter any more? Aren’t we all too cool and liberated to care? It is always crass and reductive to draw up cause and effect. But there are certain things that make you wonder. When Britain, with just 19.7 per cent women MPs, is 51st among democratic nations for female representation — not just below the groovy progressive Scandinavians but Bulgaria, Latvia, Eritrea and, for goodness’ sake, Pakistan — you have to ask if the stench of misogyny deters good women from standing, or insinuates to those who might select them that really they have no place being there." (paragraph taken from the article)

I think the author raises a very important and valid point in the article. "Are we too cool to care?" Could it possibly be because of the this environment and culture that we grew up in. Many women do not want to be labelled feminists. To majority of our society, the term 'feminists' does not carry very positive connotation. Many women are afraid to point out casual sexists acts because they are afraid of being labelled feminists. Why this fear? It is once again because of this culture that we have created for ourselves. Essentially, as much as many of us hate to admit it, the world today is still pretty much a man's world. Cultures are our "templates for living" and by adhering to this particular template women are not doing themselves any favours.

"There is no point making an official protest about a sexist advertisement: a friend who complained to ASA that a huge, soft-porn hoarding advertising a lap dancing club opposite a sixth form college degraded women was outraged by the judgment that “in the context of an ad for a table-dancing club, the image was unlikely to be seen as unduly explicit or overly provocative.” So that’s OK, then!

Somewhere in the free-market driven moral relativism of the past decade, we have lost the ability to say, without fear of being called uptight or fun-sucking, that selling sex on the high street, raunchy outfits for toddlers or scabrous attacks on female public figures based upon their looks just ain’t right."


Do we really want our own children to be exposed to this kind of culture growing up? I highly doubt so. In comms class, we learnt that culture represents our understanding of what is true and that it involves the programming of the mind. Once certain patterns of thinking and mindsets have been established within a person's mind, he or she must unlearn these before being able to learn something different. I think the only way to tackle this problem is to teach the general community to have a little more respect for women and correct the views and perceptions that they currently hold.

11 comments:

  1. hi hello! :D

    again... i am afraid to comment on yet another seemingly feminist post... HMMMMM...
    hahaha.. kidding babe! very good issue u've raised! sth that has not been drawing the attention it deserves!

    casual sexism may seem harmless to some but if it goes on and on, it will become more and more causal and acceptable in today's society and thus makin women lose their rights and self respect more.. it mught even be done subconciously in this world we live in.. raunchy adverts, dirty music lyrics, a trillion dollar porn empire are all examples of casual sexism that are becoming more and more accepted as ppl think its more liberal to accept such views rather than fight them as they are scared they might be thought of as overly sensitive, feminist or even narrow minded..
    WRONG! i think this behaving this way does encourage narrowminded views on women.. i like the point alicia raised abt 'feminist' haveing negative connotations.. so true.. so trueee! but women should not be afraid to voice out just cos they fear to be stereotyped! that would be such a shame indeed! fight for ur rights women! this world is indeed a man's world.. sure progress has been made but the pace has to be hastened if we are to call ourselves a civilised society! cos equality is a true mark of civilised society..

    BUT i have to agree that women do actually encourage this casual sexism as they enjoy the benefits of such sexism... seducation is indeed a powerful tool on sexually charged males(poor us :( )
    but by enjoying these benefits, they also forget that they bring abt with it the downs of such casual sexism.. women know wat they do sometimes is taking advantage of casual sexism but they simply shrug it away by stating 'if u got it.. flaunt it'// using looks to increase sales, wearing short skirts and figure hugging tops to work.. they would argue saying that I AM JUST TRYING TO EXPRESS MY SEXUALITY.. worng again as sometimes its just an invalid excuse and make men think wrongly of these women.. seduction is a double edged sword my female friends..
    dun encourage among urselves and respect urselves b4 u expect men to respect u all..
    SEE HOW MUCH I RESPECT U ALICIA.. u earned it..
    :P
    haha
    but jokes aside.. think abt it ppl..
    FYI..
    brilliant article!
    :D

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  2. Hey there Alicia, interesting entry here.

    Personally, i feel that feminism is something which has always been a hotly debated issue. This issue has always been more of a nature versus nurture theory sort of issue. I feel that society has shaped our behaviours and form norms such that males tend to still dominate in terms of power. Yes, it is true that females are increasingly more aware of their own rights and have risen against the norms to fight for what they deem as ideal for them. They do not succumb to say, abusive relationships, like before.

    Even if females tend to hold more power, ultimately, gender equality still remains an issue for poverty-stricken countries where females are still the ones adhering to societal norms and roles-to be housewives and take care of the family.

    Also, the culture we are exposed to is not really up to individuals to decide. The media and society shapes us into who we are and i believe that ethnocentrism is also prevalent in societies today and that we should instead, learn to be more selective towards information we filter from the media or other sources.

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  3. Oh boy, head hurting from all the reading. BUT the one thing your little discussion made me thnk of is how opportunistic I am. hehehe. you know how i keep gong on about how guys are stupid etc etc.. and that makes me seem supre feministic. but i realised i like using it to my own advantage. hehehe. when someone tells me to do something thtat is BAD,trying to play the feminist card, i tell them 'what? who says that i'm feminist?' but when i argue, it usually comes out as me being feminist.. hmm.. opportunistic evil little me :)

    what I think is that we women are super devious, that even though it SEEMS like the world is still run by men, and on the outside it might.. but we all know that behind every successful man is a WOMAN!!! :)

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  4. If I could do a facebook "Like" on this post. I would.

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  5. Firstly, I totally agree with your view about casual sexism. As it is, though there has been numerous women rights campaigns and the whole issue of gender equality in the workplace, the issue of sexism is always omnipresent. The fact that it is "socially" acceptable, and people don't bother kicking up a fuss underlies that casual sexism is viewed as a norm. This has further implications for women in society. Anyways, long story short, Guys Suck. And women these days should be smart enough to know the difference between being labelled as a feminist vs being assertive in their own rights. -ds

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  6. Respect is fundamental in women's relationships with men, and you're very right in pointing out how necessary it is for women to recognise that. Very interesting choice of topic with an excellent critique!

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  7. Hey Peter (:

    Okay with regards to your sexism entry, I feel that sexism is actually non-existent in the current society. It is no longer an issue of large proportions as it was in the older generations. Perhaps feminism and females attempting to gain respect might be confused in certain situations, however, if you think about it, without feminism, gender equality might have never come about it the first place. Females and males are both superior in their own rights and I believe every female has the right to stamp their authority on the fields that they are obviously more superior in. Good entry, I enjoyed reading it !

    Regards,
    Daryl (:

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  8. This is an issue that has been haunting almost every part of the globe. thankfully, due to increasing acceptance towards females as equal citizens with rights for education, to work, vote and have their own freedom of life has definitely helped. However, that is not to say that it is not still present in society. Perhaps it is possible to say that all this sexism is rooted down from the past and up till now it is unable to be fully absolved. Society takes time to change, and thus we can see that society is still in the process of changing. I believe as societies become increasingly open not towards just women but also homosexuality, it is most probable that there will be less sexism in the future, even as our children have to grow up in such a society.

    There are probably many roots of sexism, namely mainly through culture and religion. Many forms of religion promote men as the main figurehead, women being submissive, therefore causing laws such as that in the middle east to severely suppress the women's voice. In chinese culture, for example, men are seen to bear the family name and thus are more valued in the family. A notable change of society and culture is happening now. it can be seen through many signs, however it will still take time as nothing will come instantly. Perhaps we will still have to live with sexism for many more years before it is totally meted out.

    China is said to have lesser emphasis on having males now. In fact, girls are much more valued in the more developed parts of China, that is, Beijing, Shanghai and the likes. In the past years, many men has been seen to be unable to find suitors due to the overwhelming ratio of men against women. Therefore, with girls in the family, it is possible that many suitors are after one girl. Societies like Singapore which are more developed also have a family structure whereby women go out to work alongside men, further decreasing the amount of sexism. All this is in good progress towards equality between women and men. It is only time when there will be a very thin line between both, and maybe even men will be struggling against women's sexism.

    My main issue of concern which i want to put across is really that sadly, one of the main causes which i feel women are put in such positions is that they themselves sometimes subject themselves to such sexism. There is a sort of self vigilante attitude which they place amongst and against their own gender. Be it whether it is about weight, or how much a girl sleeps with other guys, girls seem to use all this as weapons against each other. "hell hath no fury like a woman's scorn". This itself is indeed true. in the process of all this internal gender conflict, i honestly feel that men have come to take the upper hand and use all these weapons aimed at each other. While women are calling each other sluts, the men are themselves sleeping around with other women and getting away with it. More often than naught, it is the woman blamed, not the men. I feel that women themselves have to step up for their own gender and not subject themselves to such sexism. If they feel that they want equality, hope that they really want full equality, not one with a double standard.

    Maybe one day there will no longer be such a term as a "gentleman". If women really want really equality, they have to step up and not expect guys to treat them specially, but of the same equality. Girls, if u want to curb out sexism and have equality u have to be ready for it, and u must fight alongside each other against men, not against each other.

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  9. many times people always think women are less capable than men in many ways.but i certainly do not agree as i feel that both men and women are equal and if given a chance the women will do their jobs well enough as the men.

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  10. termin8r!
    you brought up a very interesting point!
    our sociology lecturer just talked about the shortage of women in China now and how it has sort of increased their value to society due to the so called "shortage of supply" of women.

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  11. AGREE.
    well then again, sexism is less commonly practised in the twenty-first century isnt it. at least in our society. =))

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